Wedding Ettiquette

So I was an usher (better known as the JV Groomsmen!) at a wedding this weekend. It was a good friend of mine getting married, and myself and 3 other buddies of his were also ushers. As people came in, we offered our arms to the ladies, and took them to there seats (just like ushers do).

Well a girl comes in, around her early 20s (I later find out that she is the girlfriend of the bride's brother), and I offer her my arm, with a nice smile, and a, "May I take you to your seat?"

Her non-chalant answer, along with a wave of the hand was, "NO THANKS!" It kinda threw me for a loop.

Later on, I happened to be sitting next to her, coincidentally, during the wedding, when I look over, only to find her sending a text message, in the middle of the ceremony. I was about to lean over and punch her in the face, when I happened to see, what appeared to be her father sitting next to her on the other side...SOUND ASLEEP!

I am not sure the exact time, but I believe the wedding was 20 minutes long. You mean to tell me you cannot stay awake for 20 minutes for a wedding.

I nearly punched both of them in the face!